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Happy Birthday Achmad Reza Abas, Stay Silly and Social ;p

Mon, 28 May 2012 22:00:00 +0700

birds and bees

kurapita minus one

me favourite

beside adiska

finally the birthday boy

Happy Birthday Achmad Reza Abas, Stay Silly and Social ;p

kepribadian

Fri, 25 May 2012 20:43:15 +0700

kadang- kadang aku harus jadi yang paling ceria diantara yang ini

kemudian harus menjadi yang paling diam diantara yang itu

lalu, bertemu dengan yang disana

aku harus menjadi paling mengerti

disaat diri menuntut ego yang tinggi

lalu aku kemari menemukan yang disini

aku kembali memanjakan diri

dengan keluh kesah hati

tapi hanya kepada Tuhan, aku menjadi aku yang ini.

aku yang selalu apa adanya berserah diri.

Photo

Thu, 24 May 2012 04:39:33 +0700

"Yang Tabu Dilakukan Calon Ibu Bermutu. 1.Mengejar laki-laki idaman (Seberapapun hebatnya dia..."

Thu, 24 May 2012 04:25:00 +0700

“

Yang Tabu Dilakukan Calon Ibu Bermutu.

1.Mengejar laki-laki idaman (Seberapapun hebatnya dia )

Jika preman saja tak sudi dikejar-kejar, apalagi laki-laki sholeh, pinter, baik hati, setia, calon ayah teladan se dunia.
Menginginkan kelak mendapatkan suami sholeh ? maka jadilah sholehah yang punya harga diri, berkualitas dunia akhirat, tahu bagaimana menjaga kehormatan dan kemuliaan dirinya.

2. Menunjukkan ke’gilaan’mu padanya.

Jika dia tahu perasaanmu dan engkau terus terang menelanjangi hatimu padanya, maka laki-laki baik takkan pernah percaya, hal serupa takkan kau lakukan pada yang lain.

Jadi ..sembunyikanlah rahasia hatimu dengan aman, maka cinta sejati itu akan mencarimu dengan iman.

3. Menyerah dalam 1 kali rayuannya.

Laki-laki tangguh, hanya bisa diuji lewat seberapa hebat daya tahannya menanti hatimu luluh.

Jika Kesatria sejati tak akan mati dalam sekali tikam, maka putri sejati juga tak akan goyah dengan sekali rayuan ;)

Jadi jangan ragu tunjukkan “kelas”mu.

Wanita terhormat dan pandai menjaga kemuliaan dirinya

InsyaAllah kelak,

Akan melahirkan Bangsa yang dihormati dan dimuliakan dunia

”

- http://tattyelmir.wordpress.com/2012/05/15/yang-tabu-dilakukan-calon-ibu-bermutu/

Dreaming.

Tue, 22 May 2012 00:35:00 +0700

Inspired by @octa_228 & @anggitasharahap :)

Well, everybody has to have his/her own dream.
Tonight i spent few hours in eating well with my lovey twinny Octa & Ita.The interested one thing is a little chitchat about Dream. One of my friend was really confused and directless about her dream. She found her self having no big temptation in what to do in the next chapter of life. Behaving like this, she trapped on her mindset that she’s lost. Just lost. She didn’t know what to choose, what to do about the choice and what the reasons behind choosing this.
This is maybe what common people right now name galau. Since i’m not the expert on this case, i just can giggle as long as i hear about the whole stories. But then i’m thinking that people like this, people who has many thoughts about her future. A person who did not realize that she was in her uncomfort zone having such disturbing stuffs on mind.

I don’t know, these days i’m feeling trapped in my so comfort zone. I’m even asking more: To be surrounded by my family. I miss somehow struggling in uncomfort zone. A zone that makes me smile at the end having such a brand new thought about life experience. Lucky , she’s (my friend) on her uncomfort zone.

Back again to my friend’s case. I have no idea why she could be that confused. In academic and sport, she’s just having a well record. She’s good at managing her responsibility. She’s maximize all of her works, she’s genious, clever and somehow diligent at certain moments, hehe.

This is human. Once they have so many strength in other’s point of view, she just can see her weakness or simply could be said what (maybe) she can’t do. Thus, she has no big dream about her future, she has so many reasons to reconsider many many times before choosing. But.. however i see that even she could face life flows, she can’t accept things that dismatch to her. And i found it as an answer. Someone has to have something she/he mostly wants.

There’s one maybe said that he/she has no dream. But in other’s point of view, she/he could accomplish a very big dream. There’s one maybe said that she/he has no strong temptation. But in other’s point of view, that one person will constantly have temptation in however things come in life. That one person will be everything, everything that human can be. There’s one that state herself couldn’t goal a dream, someday somehow will realize that she/he has just hold someone’s dream. Then continously will have anothers.

How unfair in several points of view: You can’t define what you really aim to, you can just spontaneously react what happens next and something big comes.

That one who can’t define her/his dream doesn’t mean nothing, yes?

When you can’t define your dream, find what life brings to you.
When life doesn’t bring anything.
Try to reach something what your world need you the most.
Try to reach something what your heart wants you the most.

This is what an ordinary lady could advice you: Embrace your future, dear friend.

"Jika ia belahan jiwamu, ia akan memperlakukanmu dengan hormat, dan tak menelantarkanmu untuk..."

Wed, 16 May 2012 10:47:17 +0700

“Jika ia belahan jiwamu, ia akan memperlakukanmu dengan hormat, dan tak menelantarkanmu untuk mengemis perhatian.”

- Mario Teguh (via anamrufisa)

"Ada yang lebih berat daripada menjaga hati kita sendiri; menjaga hati orang lain, dari prasangka..."

Wed, 16 May 2012 10:28:03 +0700

“Ada yang lebih berat daripada menjaga hati kita sendiri; menjaga hati orang lain, dari prasangka maupun harapan yang berlebihan.”

- (via akanokoizumi)

ternyata masih ada...

Wed, 16 May 2012 10:22:04 +0700

saya: Anak-anak, seandainya kalian boleh milih, mau main game di iPad atau main sama temen-temen?
anak-anak: Main sama temen-temen, Bu!!!
saya: Kenapa? iPad kan keren...
anak-anak: Gak mau, sama temen-temen lebih seru! Lari-larian, kejar-kejaran...
saya: (tersenyum dan berkata dalam hati: ternyata masih ada...)

"Sebagian besar laki-laki menginginkan istri yang pintar memasak, pandai menjahit, tampilan fisik..."

Wed, 16 May 2012 10:21:58 +0700

“Sebagian besar laki-laki menginginkan istri yang pintar memasak, pandai menjahit, tampilan fisik yang menarik. Tapi kita (para perempuan) tidak menginginkan apa-apa dari mereka selain dua hal: tanggung jawab (dunia-akhirat) dan setia.”

- (via anamrufisa)

X: Kamu mau cari yang kayak gimana?

Wed, 16 May 2012 10:02:40 +0700

X: Kamu mau cari yang kayak gimana?
Y: Hmmm, yang soleh.
X: Semua perempuan juga maunya gitu.
Y: Saya belum selesai.
X: Lalu apa lagi?
Y: Juga yang sederhana jiwanya.

"Good intentions are the most beautiful of secrets"

Sat, 12 May 2012 09:44:44 +0700

“Good intentions are the most beautiful of secrets”

- Imam Ali (as)

Someday by Nina. The song was really hyped between my...

Sat, 12 May 2012 00:09:00 +0700

Someday by Nina. The song was really hyped between my bestfriends in first year of University.

"When you find yourself complaining about others, don’t try to change them. Change yourself."

Sat, 12 May 2012 00:04:05 +0700

“When you find yourself complaining about others, don’t try to change them. Change yourself.”

In several points of view, somehow something looks really small...

Fri, 11 May 2012 17:20:16 +0700

In several points of view, somehow something looks really small and easy to reach.

Every lady hearts Fialovy. confuse in answering customers...

Fri, 11 May 2012 17:16:57 +0700

Every lady hearts Fialovy.

confuse in answering customers question about Fialovy. no matter how many times it’s back in stock. somehow, we considered not to produce it again in the next collection.

grasya’s colors

Fri, 11 May 2012 16:19:47 +0700

grasya’s colors

Soulmate?

Fri, 11 May 2012 15:49:00 +0700

well, biasanya lebih enak nulis tentang negative things kayak gini malam- malam.

but i think it’s good to be honest so i choose to write here, in the corner of my fave cafe in the bright evening. here, i should’ve studied. buat i’ve done nothing. besides eating some snacks i ordered without temptation.

ya Allah. what really happened to me? just finished some targets in life. and i find my self not that in charge to start the rest of my targets.

honestly, i’m feeling tired, exhausted, bored. and to be true, i’m feeling bad to feel that. where’s my grateful attitude to God after what been given to me?

i’m now easily sleeping again after my dawn prayer. then doing uncommon works like chatting with no certain direction. maybe i miss my family? then, every thursday night i go to somewhere i could be showered of religious knowledege. Alahamdulillah for this. I’m now trying to be istiqomah; so continously seeking for good knowledeges about life. But really, since i’m still that poor, that stupid, i think i should adjust my sunnah things. but where i am? i found my self not really move in speed. indeed, to be better woman. a moslem woman.

there are manythings i got along 2012. But i will share one of them in this post. the really right now thingy. A soul-mate.

i’m once really trust a guy. consciously feel what they name “love”. i was in relationship with him, then broke up with such a reason. then we started to be closer again the prev year and finally he disappeared without any reasons. we were in little problems, i was telling him what i disliked, and i caught that he couldn’t face reality about small matter. really, you can find nothing about BIG problem. it was just like something you both could be done in very good way. i found him changed.

Lessons learned :

He wasn’t wrong. I’m the one who was having wrong point of view. I’m wrong at trusting human and state my future like I’m the only director of my life. I forgot that I still have God. I forgot that what i can do is what human can do. Not what the creator can do. Now I can feel that someone i once really trusted yesterday may be one i can’t totally understand the day after. what to regret about? at least i got one lesson :)
After he gone, several guys come and go (again), but i can press my self harder to be more careful. those guys are nice, tho. But the best will win the heart at the end (God’s deal). So, keep calm and moving. At this moment too i heard about several bad gossips about my self (playing these guys). The funny thing is when i’m down, there’s a reminder message (SMS Tauhid) that human is human. when you realize that you can’t be true everytime, you can forgive that everyone is just human. may God direct them to be better. Be happy, you still have a life. Thus, people still talking about you. It’s not like Insert Trans TV walking behind you and talk about you everytime they found weird things; bad or good. haha, thank God.

Somehow i admitted i once try to open my mind about a guy, between few guys i noticed paying more attention. This one guy; He was nice and comfort me enough. Simple and humble. I reconsider to know deeper. But then i realized that i was going too much. Ordinary friend is the best way right now. So, i should be more strict in behaving. So thank for all bad rumours God. It reminds me alot.
galau is so nowadays word. i can’t lie that i’m one of nowadays person. But when talking about love, where surrounded by happy couples. I can be sure that now I’m having good answer for nowadays question :

Q : What kind of guy that will have your heart?

A : The guy that God permits me to love. The ordinary guy who can be my leader and once God hide all of his weakness on my every sightseeing. So, in my point of view, i just can only love him and see him as my best.

Simply, that’s why happy wifes say that her hubby is the best. how can you describe THE BEST when it applied to everyone? The Best indeed is a superlative degree.

I’m no longer state someone can’t be one of my future leader. It’s God business. I’m just working my best instinct to choose the right one.

Moreover, i’m now really miss someone i can trust i can share everthing about. a human one. But then, hmm. maybe God wants me to share all things totally to Him before i meet him, besides mom.

Photo

Tue, 08 May 2012 21:05:10 +0700

can i do this to my veil :p

Tue, 08 May 2012 20:58:52 +0700

can i do this to my veil :p

giggling.

Tue, 08 May 2012 20:57:54 +0700

giggling.