kadang- kadang aku harus jadi yang paling ceria diantara yang ini
kemudian harus menjadi yang paling diam diantara yang itu
lalu, bertemu dengan yang disana
aku harus menjadi paling mengerti
disaat diri menuntut ego yang tinggi
lalu aku kemari menemukan yang disini
aku kembali memanjakan diri
dengan keluh kesah hati
tapi hanya kepada Tuhan, aku menjadi aku yang ini.
aku yang selalu apa adanya berserah diri.
Yang Tabu Dilakukan Calon Ibu Bermutu.
1.Mengejar laki-laki idaman (Seberapapun hebatnya dia )
Jika preman saja tak sudi dikejar-kejar, apalagi laki-laki sholeh, pinter, baik hati, setia, calon ayah teladan se dunia.
Menginginkan kelak mendapatkan suami sholeh ? maka jadilah sholehah yang punya harga diri, berkualitas dunia akhirat, tahu bagaimana menjaga kehormatan dan kemuliaan dirinya.
2. Menunjukkan ke’gilaan’mu padanya.
Jika dia tahu perasaanmu dan engkau terus terang menelanjangi hatimu padanya, maka laki-laki baik takkan pernah percaya, hal serupa takkan kau lakukan pada yang lain.
Jadi ..sembunyikanlah rahasia hatimu dengan aman, maka cinta sejati itu akan mencarimu dengan iman.
3. Menyerah dalam 1 kali rayuannya.
Laki-laki tangguh, hanya bisa diuji lewat seberapa hebat daya tahannya menanti hatimu luluh.
Jika Kesatria sejati tak akan mati dalam sekali tikam, maka putri sejati juga tak akan goyah dengan sekali rayuan ;)
Jadi jangan ragu tunjukkan “kelas”mu.
Wanita terhormat dan pandai menjaga kemuliaan dirinya
InsyaAllah kelak,
Akan melahirkan Bangsa yang dihormati dan dimuliakan dunia
"Inspired by @octa_228 & @anggitasharahap :)
Well, everybody has to have his/her own dream.
Tonight i spent few hours in eating well with my lovey twinny Octa & Ita.The interested one thing is a little chitchat about Dream. One of my friend was really confused and directless about her dream. She found her self having no big temptation in what to do in the next chapter of life. Behaving like this, she trapped on her mindset that she’s lost. Just lost. She didn’t know what to choose, what to do about the choice and what the reasons behind choosing this.
This is maybe what common people right now name galau. Since i’m not the expert on this case, i just can giggle as long as i hear about the whole stories. But then i’m thinking that people like this, people who has many thoughts about her future. A person who did not realize that she was in her uncomfort zone having such disturbing stuffs on mind.
I don’t know, these days i’m feeling trapped in my so comfort zone. I’m even asking more: To be surrounded by my family. I miss somehow struggling in uncomfort zone. A zone that makes me smile at the end having such a brand new thought about life experience. Lucky , she’s (my friend) on her uncomfort zone.
Back again to my friend’s case. I have no idea why she could be that confused. In academic and sport, she’s just having a well record. She’s good at managing her responsibility. She’s maximize all of her works, she’s genious, clever and somehow diligent at certain moments, hehe.
This is human. Once they have so many strength in other’s point of view, she just can see her weakness or simply could be said what (maybe) she can’t do. Thus, she has no big dream about her future, she has so many reasons to reconsider many many times before choosing. But.. however i see that even she could face life flows, she can’t accept things that dismatch to her. And i found it as an answer. Someone has to have something she/he mostly wants.
There’s one maybe said that he/she has no dream. But in other’s point of view, she/he could accomplish a very big dream. There’s one maybe said that she/he has no strong temptation. But in other’s point of view, that one person will constantly have temptation in however things come in life. That one person will be everything, everything that human can be. There’s one that state herself couldn’t goal a dream, someday somehow will realize that she/he has just hold someone’s dream. Then continously will have anothers.
How unfair in several points of view: You can’t define what you really aim to, you can just spontaneously react what happens next and something big comes.
That one who can’t define her/his dream doesn’t mean nothing, yes?
When you can’t define your dream, find what life brings to you.
When life doesn’t bring anything.
Try to reach something what your world need you the most.
Try to reach something what your heart wants you the most.
This is what an ordinary lady could advice you: Embrace your future, dear friend.
(Source: atepalishaque, via anamrufisa)
(Source: kholidarrofi, via anamrufisa)
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